Saturday, August 1, 2020
In A Rut....
Saturday, July 25, 2020
Herbal AntiViral - Fresh Ginger Root
Tuesday, June 23, 2020
Honeydew List and Relaxing Rewards
I spent the past weekend painting my apartment. A light green color called Heart of Palm on the main wall and a light yellow on the adjacent wall. I absolutely love the look of it. I've been spending so much time staring at these walls, working from home, that after a year of living in this place...I had to do something to spruce it up. I love it! I can scratch out two items off my to-do list. Yay!
Sunday, June 14, 2020
OMG! It's been too long...
First thing....my latest song obsession GHOST by Kylie Rothfield, produced by Ester Dean. Love Kylie Rothfield's tone, love the lyrics, love this song. It has so much ache and pain that I can't stop listening to it over and over again. You need to put the close captions on because the words are gorgeous. Before I even put it up on this blog, it was making me well up. So good!!
Gosh, it's been 6 month since I last wrote on this blog. Nothing much has been going on. Pandemic, protests, looting, fires, working from home...you know, same old, same old. Not!
This blog was always supposed to be about the creative work, my process and even a bit of whinging. However, my day job has basically hijacked my brain for the past year and a half. That's the very short answer to the very complicated question of, "where have you been hiding?"
I've been working and reading. That's a fair assessment of the past six months. I've been binge reading on books because I've been out of pace with my writing. I'd rather navel gaze than pick a pen up to write. My sister Ces is (right now) writing a story that she's so excited about that she's trying to finish it, so she can bring over a draft for me to read. Seriously?! Ugh, I have no excuses. * head hung low in proverbial shame *
My friend J gave me a couple of cheesy romance novels to read, very niche, very quirky...I won't even bother with the title but the writer in me was appalled at the simple story. The writer's inability to keep to the story arc. The climax of the story was 10 pages from the end of the book. Terrible! So disappointing and formulaic. I won't get back the couple of hours that this 200 page novel took from me. I'm sure you're asking, "well why didn't you just stop reading after the first 10 pages?" The quirkiness of the language kept me engaged and it had some funny literary references that made me laugh out loud. I admit it, I'm a literary geek and once I'm engaged in some way, I need to see it to the end.
I digress, my point is that reading this book reminds me I am quite capable of writing my own novel/play/story. Seriously!!! I can't stop saying that word...even in my own head.
Next week, I'm taking a couple of days off just to give myself a break from work. I am going to spend those three extra days painting my living room (FINALLY!!!) Can't wait. I love painting, it takes me out of my head and the task itself is almost meditative. I've already taken all the books and DVDs out of the bookshelf and piled them on my dining table. If I can tackle moving the furniture out of the way, then painting on my own won't be quite so overwhelming. I was going to reach out to a friend to see if she has time to help but I have a hard time asking for help. There is a part of me that thinks..."I can do this on my own" and only when I'm in my 6th hour of trying to paint edges will I kick myself for not having reached out to friends or family. Stubborn. Like Mule <said in a Russian accent> The other part is that it's a small space and once I move furniture, there won't be much room to navigate. Better to do it on my own so no one gets hurt. Ha!
The last bit that I wanted to share is that I tried out for a playwriting residency with a NYC theater. I received my rejection letter at the beginning of this month. What a bummer! My creative life has taken a dramatic turn AWAY from where I had hoped to have been with produced and published work. Does that last sentence even make sense? I've read it several times and I still don't know if it's grammatically correct. I'm losing my touch. Where is my Modern English Usage book? Oh, that's right at the bottom of a pile on my dining room table.
That's all I for today. I don't know if I'm going to keep this blog going but at least for today, just one more entry into the ether.
Thursday, January 2, 2020
Happy New Year
Have you ever woken up in a really good mood; the sun is just starting to rise, there is an excellent mug of caffeine in hand and things just feel promising? You enter the office and someone's lack of organizational skills and foresight is in direct conflict with your own. And their lack of skills has their work summarily dumped into your lap. After you've cleared the proverbial dust from old files, you are thinking Hell No! But somehow that work is now YOURS. And it's now priority because it is material that should have been handled years ago. Hmm!
Perhaps, just perhaps, this situation has left me feeling a bit perturbed...pissed off...pitching a fit inside my head...so here's my Serenity Prayer on this Thursday night...
me.
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Monday, December 2, 2019
Rounding the Corner
I am late on Christmas shopping. It's the first week and I have only bought one gift. Ergh! I think that might be the only one I get this year. My poor nieces will just have to get an envelope of cash from me. Poor things! I have plenty of time to get my family gifts...but I just don't wanna! I am so over the crowded Christmas crowds. Maybe I'll just buy everyone socks this year. Haha! Just kidding...well kind of. In the grand scheme of things, who cares? It's just more STUFF! Stuff that will get stuffed in over-stuffed drawers never to see the light of day again. I think my capitalist gene died this year. We will be holding a wake for it any day now. Just need to get the bottle of tequila sitting at my work desk to pour one for the homies. Haha!
I'm in a bit of silly mood. I've spent the weekend writing and spending time doing creative work. I feel almost human again. It's been too long. I put an entry into an Emerging Writing Program with the Public Theater. I didn't think I was going to follow through with it because on most given days, I feel like that ship has sailed. BUT...then I think, why not? I have nothing to lose. Better to put in an application and get a rejection than NOT applying.
My goal for the month of December is to find some creative projects to work on. I'm going to push past my comfort zone and find some new ways to challenge my creative brain. It's been lying dormant for about three years now...no more excuses. Off the top of my head, here are some things I've been thinking about:
1. Continue to learn French. Perhaps get over my shyness and speak it, out loud.
2. Sign up for another drawing class.
3. Attend art lectures after work.
4. Take a cooking class.
5. Take a jewelry-making class.
6. Learn welding. Yes, for art projects
7. Learn weaving.
8. I've even thought of ballet classes but I can't get the Fantasia image of hippo in a tutu out of my head. Again...working on getting past my comfort zone.
On a last note, I'm going to leave you with Eartha Kitt's- Santa Baby
-Lily
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Sunday, September 8, 2019
Monologues, Musicals and Plays, Oh My!
Photo by Marc Brenner |
Then I went to see Bat Out of Hell playing at City Center on a high recommendation from a co-worker. Lord was that a mistake. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE music by MEATLOAF, which was why it wasn't a hard sell for me to buy a ticket to go see this show. Let me start with the positive...the stagecraft/set design was actually amazing. The performance of the songs was a bit cheesy but I went with it since the performers could hold the notes. But the choreography was laughable. It was so basic and juvenile that it felt more like a school performance than a Broadway show. I was waiting for "jazz hands" to come out somewhere. The story arc felt forced...trying to fit songs into the story line felt a bit random. I love a good rock opera...hello, rocker chick here...but this did not work for me. The one saving grace was Danielle Steers, who played Zahara; that woman could belt out a song.
Photo by Annie Liebovitz, 2019 |
Meanwhile, Jake Gyllenhaal's performance was quite captivating. He handled the telling of two stories simultaneously in a seamless manner without losing the meaning of either. It was an hour long monologue and he relayed the material with emotional impact. He made me laugh and also welled me up with tears at some of the more poignant moments. Truly an actor mastering his craft.
Why am I on a theater jag? I am trying to connect back with my own writing. I want to be inspired, moved, shaken awake...I need "something" to get me going again. I've been dormant for far too long and my inner writer is aching for some creativity. I journal to keep me writing but that's not nearly enough. The writing is slow, thick, molasses-like. I've put so many years into this craft and the past couple of years there has been so much neglect that I can barely call it up. That might be why I've shown up to my blog again after all this time. Keeps my mind working on short pieces, hoping to spark that ember in my belly, breathe it back to life. I am a bit lost at the moment.
L~
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Monday, September 2, 2019
Bank Holiday
I'm listening to Ed Sheeran/Justin Beiber's song, I Don't Care. I would put up their silly little video but I can't bear to watch it again. Ooo, I will put up Black Eyed Peas, Be Nice. It's such a swaggy song that I can't stop listening to it. Enjoy!
L~
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Sunday, September 1, 2019
10 months away
I haven't done much writing lately. I have half-hearted attempts at different projects but nothing is kindling the fire in my belly. Something seems to be missing lately. The joy of it seems to have fizzled out, which is a difficult realization. I spent last night talking like a has-been writer with my best friend over watered down gin and tonics. Let's just say I woke up feeling a bit pathetic.
Let me go back a bit since there a whole slew of reasons/excuses why I'm not writing, should I share? Does it really matter? Well here goes anyway: at the beginning of this year, I received a promotion at work. But it's been challenging, learning this new role, having so much on, working Saturdays to try to get ahead of the workload, working at home to organize my priorities for the following day. It's a good decent job and I'm enjoying the challenges, for the most part. We have so much on that the higher ups gave us the nod to add a junior member to our team. We just started the interviewing process, it will probably be late October before the person will be onboarded to the team. In the meantime, I am still trying to learn all aspects of the job. I'm flexible enough to take on new information but there is not much time to process it. Ergh. I feel a bit burnt around the edges lately. All my grey matter has been going to the day job. I have very little left over for anything else.
I spent the better part of this summer working full stop. I've only taken a couple of days off and it was just to help some friends with a home reno'. Even now, I'm looking around my apartment and I can see all the things I have to take care of in the next couple of weeks. For example, re-seal the the window ledge to prevent the winter from seeping in. I have a stack of mail that I need to go through...most of it just needs to be thrown out. There are also all these odds and ends that need to be discarded. A bag full of clothing that I need to bring to one of the donation centers. It's never ending. I just want to simplify things/my life. That usually means scaling things back. Discarding, donating, getting rid of all the superfluous matter in my life.
My mom recently took a look at my closet and commented that I barely have any clothing. She has three walk in closets worth of clothing. Hmmm. I have just enough clothing to get me through 21 days worth of work, play and sleep. And I could still pull out articles of clothing that I never wear but haven't given up yet. After writing this, I'm probably going to add them to the donation bag. * sigh *
I know this blog today is really a stream of consciousness entry but after almost a year of silence, let's just go with it...shall we? It's 4 pm in the afternoon and I'm steaming up some leftover black rice with calamari squid for an early dinner. I just had my third mug of tea and I need another. I'm trying to figure out if I want to binge something on Netflix or start reading Memoirs of a Geisha.
Anyway, that's all I have for today.
me.
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Saturday, November 24, 2018
Tea gone cold is rank
I don't really have anything clever to write at the moment. My day job has been super stressful with an upcoming large meeting. I am handling a portion of the logistics and my brain refuses to turn off. I've been journaling but not enough of the work is creative. Definitely missing that portion of my life. Once I get through this next week, I'll have some breathing room to get some of my own work done. This week will be 12 hour days, going home and crashing. That's as much as I'll be able to muster. Somewhere in there I need to see about getting a workout or two in. Really, I should have gone to the gym earlier this morning but I got up to finish up a recipe instead.
Somewhere in there...I also have to finish Christmas shopping. My nieces are done. They are always first on my list. I also have to buy paper and boxes to wrap gifts. I have ideas on what to get the rest of my family. Eesh! I'm hoping to have it done by the first week in December. Then a much needed holiday vacation in Texas with my folks. Yay! Wish me luck~
Lily
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Sunday, April 1, 2018
Sunday morning
One of my sisters is coming over and I'm cooking up some brunch for us. Spicy chorizo with scrambled eggs and mashed black beans. It's the first day in four days that I actually have an appetite so I can't wait. In the meantime, I am sipping on a large mug of Earl Grey tea. All for now...
Lily~
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Sunday, February 25, 2018
A Solid Fifty Pages
My muse was chomping at the bit today but she grew tired when I hit 10:30 pm. She gave a big yawn and she told me to run along, we would do more tomorrow. Then she drew her shade down around her chaise lounge and fell into a deep sleep. I'll let her rest for now...I hope she'll be able to manage a bit more tomorrow morning so I can finish this draft. Thursday is the deadline. Eek! Okay, the fear is starting to set in so I'm going to sign off before that beast is fed.
Feel the fear and write anyway.
Peace,
L~
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Wednesday, February 21, 2018
I need a break...
I've decided to stop swimming against the current and I'm taking myself out of the river altogether. I need to sit in quiet contemplation to calm my s**t down and find a new opportunity or create the kind of opportunity I want in my life. It might be time for me to pull up roots and start a new chapter somewhere else because this just isn't working for me tonight.
Rant over...I'm hiding under my duvet until I have a better reason to get out of bed other than my stupid day job. Peace~
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Monday, February 19, 2018
Muse on Snooze
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Sunday, February 4, 2018
Sunday afternoon in February
I also worked on a couple of poetry pieces. I have one hanging in the draft mode on this blog. Not ready to pull the trigger on it yet. However, I did submit some new poetry pieces to an online magazine. I guess that's something right?
I've had the apartment to myself and I like the ability to stretch out without my roommate around.
I am sitting at my desk, sipping a big cup of hot earl grey tea, a small desk light on, looking out the window. The day is grey and dim but I'm feeling at peace with the world today. I'm listening to James Bay playing in the background. Someone snap a pic, quick. It's def worth making a note here about it. Since most days I'm full of angst and worries over not getting enough writing done. Today, I am not. :-) Time to go finish a journal entry and then dinner. OM!
L~
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Saturday, February 3, 2018
you got me going
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Tuesday, January 23, 2018
Tuesday Tidbit
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Wednesday, January 17, 2018
Hello Out There...Is This Mic On?
It's been raining and snowing on this cold January day and I've been home with a bit of a migraine. Darn thing sneaks up on me sometimes. Oh wait...Sade is playing now...nope, can't listen to her tonight. I've changed it over to Sam Smith's, Stay With Me.
What have I been up to? Let's see, I'm working on an application for a Fiction grant. Ergh. Deadline is next week and I'm almost done with the package. All I have left to do is upload the materials to the site. I can't do it today because migraines leave me loopy and I always make the oddest mistakes. I'm holding off until I'm a bit more clear headed. Tomorrow might be a better day.
I think I wrote about my escapist fantasies late last year and it keeps popping up for me. The one where I cash out my 401K and go traveling. Of course, I start thinking about the "stuff" in my apartment and I think, could I do it? Could I really pick up my life and go exploring? My gypsy soul is definitely singing that tune. I know what it is...it's a real visceral need to shake up my life. I get too comfortable and I want MORE...I want something else...I want to FEEL something more. Instead of living this lukewarm existence.
Let's see...I've booked my airline ticket and hotel to Paris. I've wanted to go to France since I was 16 years old. Even the thought of the trip has me doing cartwheels in my head. Haha. See...that's what happens when I start thinking of traveling....it's my happy place.
Here are some of my most recent recommendations:
Music: I'm still obsessed with Johnnyswim. I went to hear them play last month and they were fantastic live.
Sci-fi show: Travelers on Netflix
Books: I've read a slew of books on my hiatus but the best one had to be The Reader by Bernhard Schlink. The story stayed with me long after I put that book down.
That's all for now, I will write more soon.
Peace,
L~
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Tuesday, August 29, 2017
gray morning
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